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		<title>Comment on MLR Press Author James Buchanan by VJ Summers</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/mlr-press-author-james-buchanan/comment-page-1/#comment-666</link>
		<dc:creator>VJ Summers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 14:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Better commenting late than never?

I just wanted to give a huge bravo to your description of what exactly Domination and submission are.  Before Sierra and I wrote our first book, Carrie&#039;s Answer (which is very soft BDSM) I really struggled with the idea of BDSM.  I had the popular view of whips, chains, pain and humiliation. It was Joey W. Hill&#039;s Rough Canvas (which was also, incidentally, my first m/m romance and is still on my re-read for inspiration shelf next to Cheating Chance) that first gave me that &quot;ah-ha&quot; moment.  The one where I realized it wasn&#039;t about toys, or props, or bullying.  It was a power exchange, yes, but the one in control wasn&#039;t the one tying the ropes or wielding the crop. 

That kind of intimacy and trust humbles and awes me.  And authors who manage to convey it - the most important component of BDSM and D/s - have my unreserved respect.  It&#039;s so much more than tab A/slot B.  It&#039;s so much more than whipping or spanking.  It&#039;s something integral to a person&#039;s very being, and it&#039;s a rare and talented author who can capture the emotion of it on the page.

So, yay James for not only defining BDSM and D/s in a way that makes sense, but for creating and sharing characters who embody it in a way that&#039;s not only vivid, but also accessible. And, since I&#039;m having a fan-girl moment and totally sucking up, I&#039;ll also mention that the contrast between what Nicky and Brandon do, and Nicky&#039;s interaction with his evil ex is one of the most effective I&#039;ve ever seen, and it&#039;s what I refer folks to when they make uneducated comments about what I read and what I write.

Okay, like most authors I&#039;ve run off at the keyboard way more than I&#039;d meant to.  I&#039;m creeping back into my cave to lurk again! ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Better commenting late than never?</p>
<p>I just wanted to give a huge bravo to your description of what exactly Domination and submission are.  Before Sierra and I wrote our first book, Carrie&#8217;s Answer (which is very soft BDSM) I really struggled with the idea of BDSM.  I had the popular view of whips, chains, pain and humiliation. It was Joey W. Hill&#8217;s Rough Canvas (which was also, incidentally, my first m/m romance and is still on my re-read for inspiration shelf next to Cheating Chance) that first gave me that &#8220;ah-ha&#8221; moment.  The one where I realized it wasn&#8217;t about toys, or props, or bullying.  It was a power exchange, yes, but the one in control wasn&#8217;t the one tying the ropes or wielding the crop. </p>
<p>That kind of intimacy and trust humbles and awes me.  And authors who manage to convey it &#8211; the most important component of BDSM and D/s &#8211; have my unreserved respect.  It&#8217;s so much more than tab A/slot B.  It&#8217;s so much more than whipping or spanking.  It&#8217;s something integral to a person&#8217;s very being, and it&#8217;s a rare and talented author who can capture the emotion of it on the page.</p>
<p>So, yay James for not only defining BDSM and D/s in a way that makes sense, but for creating and sharing characters who embody it in a way that&#8217;s not only vivid, but also accessible. And, since I&#8217;m having a fan-girl moment and totally sucking up, I&#8217;ll also mention that the contrast between what Nicky and Brandon do, and Nicky&#8217;s interaction with his evil ex is one of the most effective I&#8217;ve ever seen, and it&#8217;s what I refer folks to when they make uneducated comments about what I read and what I write.</p>
<p>Okay, like most authors I&#8217;ve run off at the keyboard way more than I&#8217;d meant to.  I&#8217;m creeping back into my cave to lurk again! <img src='http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on MLR Press Author James Buchanan by James Buchanan</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Buchanan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for having me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for having me!</p>
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		<title>Comment on MLR Press Author James Buchanan by admin</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/mlr-press-author-james-buchanan/comment-page-1/#comment-643</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James,

Thank you so much for joining us and I am so excited to check out your work.  Congrats on the class with Joey W. Hill we did a feature on her as I am a fan.  I really enjoyed reading your bio and getting to peek at your titles with MLR Press, Come join us again anytime.

Terry Kate
- Naughty in the Backseat</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James,</p>
<p>Thank you so much for joining us and I am so excited to check out your work.  Congrats on the class with Joey W. Hill we did a feature on her as I am a fan.  I really enjoyed reading your bio and getting to peek at your titles with MLR Press, Come join us again anytime.</p>
<p>Terry Kate<br />
- Naughty in the Backseat</p>
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		<title>Comment on S.J. Frost an MLR Press Author by S.J. Frost</title>
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		<dc:creator>S.J. Frost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 20:46:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you!  Jesse and Evan, I do love them, too :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you!  Jesse and Evan, I do love them, too <img src='http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on S.J. Frost an MLR Press Author by Perpetua</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/comment-page-1/#comment-612</link>
		<dc:creator>Perpetua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 16:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>***sigh*** I love my Jesse and Evan! Nice one SJ!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>***sigh*** I love my Jesse and Evan! Nice one SJ!</p>
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		<title>Comment on S.J. Frost an MLR Press Author by S.J. Frost</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/comment-page-1/#comment-609</link>
		<dc:creator>S.J. Frost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 14:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wanted to say thank you again for having me here, Terry!  It really is a pleasure!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to say thank you again for having me here, Terry!  It really is a pleasure!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Silly Questions and More with MLR Press Author Rick R. Reed by Rick R. Reed</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/08/silly-questions-and-more-with-mlr-press-author-rick-r-reed/comment-page-1/#comment-607</link>
		<dc:creator>Rick R. Reed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 12:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for, ahem, having me, Terry. I hope I can convince you to read more--or at least my--erotic horror.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for, ahem, having me, Terry. I hope I can convince you to read more&#8211;or at least my&#8211;erotic horror.</p>
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		<title>Comment on S.J. Frost an MLR Press Author by S.J. Frost the Real Lady behind the Books</title>
		<link>http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/comment-page-1/#comment-602</link>
		<dc:creator>S.J. Frost the Real Lady behind the Books</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 08:58:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] You can read about Ms Frost while she wears her writer hat. &#8211; http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/ [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] You can read about Ms Frost while she wears her writer hat. &#8211; <a href="http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/" rel="nofollow">http://naughtyinthebackseat.com/blog/2010/09/s-j-frost-an-mlr-press-author/</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Silly Questions and More with MLR Press Author Rick R. Reed by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 19:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Rick!

Thanks for joining us in the Backseat.  It is such an interesting thing that erotic horror is a rising genre.  My brain has this hard time wrapping around it though I know it makes perfect sense.  Thank you for the peek at your titles and being a good sharer.  The interview was a fun read.

Terry Kate
Naughty in the Backseat</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rick!</p>
<p>Thanks for joining us in the Backseat.  It is such an interesting thing that erotic horror is a rising genre.  My brain has this hard time wrapping around it though I know it makes perfect sense.  Thank you for the peek at your titles and being a good sharer.  The interview was a fun read.</p>
<p>Terry Kate<br />
Naughty in the Backseat</p>
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		<title>Comment on ManLoveRomance Publisher Interview by Trinity</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 23:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great interview. I&#039;ve heard nothing but good things about your company. Congrats on the wonderful job you are doing.
Trinity</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great interview. I&#8217;ve heard nothing but good things about your company. Congrats on the wonderful job you are doing.<br />
Trinity</p>
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